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Once again, less than a year later, we have no heat and are forced to spend the weekend with grandparents-- but this year this is only because the furnace broke and cannot be fixed until Monday, rather than us completely losing power while a blizzard makes the roads impassible and all. Jason is in fact still at home weathering it out with space heaters when he isn't at work, and the kids and I are with MY parents, which is a bit of a good time. We played in the snow today, and had hot cocoa, and played some video games (Sam discovered the joy of running Paper Mario into the water to his death by piranha over and over again, until he broke Dan's controller, which is luckily still under warranty), and I believe there may be pizza involved later.

I'm looking at my userpic and realizing a) that I need to change the default back away from ChristmasBabyAmy, although I'll choose it anyway for this entry since it's wintery; and b) that I should probably change it to something a little newer than Maddie 20 months ago, but that is the most obviously default of my userpics (because she's saying hi) and I don't feel like making a new one. Oh well, I can keep going with this until Russian Epiphany. I'm not entirely sure Epiphany is even celebrated according to the Orthodox calendar, but I always found a way to make Christmas keep going until Russian Epiphany as a kid anyway.
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This morning after dragging the kids up and running (at least Sam takes awhile to get going anywhere) I had to take my car in to get inspected because the stickers ran out last month, so while that was being done we went on a long walk down a random nearby street, where we crossed a bridge and watched the creek, saw butterflies, grasshoppers, and a dragonfly, played I Spy with leaves and flowers of various colors, sat on stumps, touched moss, argued over whether pulling up clumps of moss and dumping them on your mother's head was a good thing, and found an empty birds' nest. It was quite a good walk for two toddlers and one grownup.

Then we picked up the car and headed for the lunch buffet at Pizza Hut. That is the greatest deal ever when you have two three-and-unders, and as pizza is one of the few things Sam likes to eat currently, it's all good.

Then we stopped at the mall to finally upgrade my cell phone. I am now high-tech: I now have a phone that (gasp) TAKES PICTURES. Then I decided to torture myself by wandering by the bookstore to stare at the lovely copies of Mockingjay which were probaby there, since I preordered my copy assuming they would SEND it on Tuesday and it hasn't GOTTEN here yet grumble grumble; except it turned out there WERE no copies of Mockingjay in the book store, which seemed to lack an entire YA section period (and the children's section involved a lot of toys), so I am not entirely sure what was up with that place.

THEN I dropped the kids off with Grammy and headed home to get my stuff together for work. Driving into my driveway I could SWEAR I saw a box on my front porch. There wasn't one. Dang lack of Mockingjay.

Anyway, at work I cleaned out and reorganized all the SRC files and papers and such, then started to compose an email to the school librarians, then Deb walked by with a pile of books that had just been delivered and set them on her desk, the top one of which had a light-blue cover, and I became very excited. DUDES, HOW did our very slow to unpack things library get Mockingjay before me?!

So I read four chapters of Mockingjay while on reference. I would have brought it home, but Deb gets to work before me tomorrow, I don't want to mess up her cataloging routine. Anyway MAYBE MY COPY WILL COME TOMORROW. Um, the first four chapters were very good.

Then I came home and put my contacts list into my new phone, realized the memory card adapter they gave me to go with it does not work with my computer, and decided to round up my day for you while I was on here.

That was succinctly done, I must say, for me.
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I had dental work done today, and just now the novocaine has finally worn off completely, and I'm rather hungry. I did make myself a milkshake this afternoon, which is a good thing, but doesn't exactly carry one properly through the evening. It was a particularly potent dose of novocaine, that spread up into my sinuses. And I couldn't figure out until I was DRIVING exactly WHAT it had done to my eye. At first it just seemed BRIGHT; and then I thought it must have done something to the tear duct, because it was watering; and eventually, as I was DRIVING WITH EFFECTIVELY ONE WORKING EYE, I realized I COULDN'T BLINK. I was incapable of shutting my left eye. Once I figured this out, I was okay-- I just had to keep manually shutting it with my fingers periodically when the watering got too much. So I am home safely and I now have control of all the muscles in my face again (at least all the muscles I had control of to BEGIN with), and am now sitting in the library wondering if I have a dollar I can spare for a Sarris bar.

Dang those Sarris bars. Sitting there. Staring at me. Being Sarris chocolate and either peanut butter or pretzels. Or Crisped Rice, but why bother when there's peanut butter or pretzels present. And why even bother with pretzels unless you really need something crispy.

But anyhoo. Next week starts Summer Reading Club; we went out to clean up/prep the resource center this morning. We've got 32 kids on the waiting list, so at this point we're pretty well decided we're going to open up a fifth week of programming. No awesome field trip that we know of, but what can you do. We're still working out all the details. I'M still working out all my babysitting details, myself. As is no one can watch my kids the first day of SRC, so they're coming with. I hoped the teenaged daughter of one of my associates might like to keep an eye on them, since she'll be there volunteering anyway, but her mom doubts how she'll do with a one-year-old. We shall see how it all pans out. I'm actually billed to do the storytimes. STORYTIMES! YIPPIES! So I hope, you know, I'll actually be able to work and all.

There is something so FRUSTRATING about being in this in-between place between SAHM and Mom-with-Outside-Career! The former, well, I wouldn't NEED to worry about finding babysitting. The latter, I'd have a proper steady regular day care (though with what I make, how would I pay for it?). But part-time, I'm depending upon the grandparents, and I feel so UNdependable to my employers.

And for all the fuss, I'm still not entirely sure what I want my career to BE. I would be an awesome children's librarian, except I'm only PART of the entity that would be known as children's librarian here (along with two more programming people, a little old lady with a library catalog for a brain-- it's probably an old card catalog, but she can use it EFFICIENTLY-- and a director who does all the ordering), so I can't exactly get swept away in my own brilliant vision for the place. Or, do I want to actually try to give myself some structure and make myself WRITE for a living? First I need to make myself write in the time I've already GOT, for a start. OR, or, should I research a whole freakin' cesspool of financial aid opportunities so as to get a PhD in Children's Literature, and become a Certified Expert, and teach Children's Literature to college students?

The thing about getting a PhD in Children's Literature, is that it's really just to make me feel justified. So I can wave the piece of paper in people's faces saying "LOOK AT ME I AM AN EXPERT! TAKE ME SERIOUSLY!" Is that so wrong?

Probably.

I'm doing Ask Here PA right now for the first time in... since before Maddie was born. Only got one question so far, and it was patron's-library-(not-ours)-specific, but I pointed them toward the phone number of someone who could help, so hopefully that was all right. It's been a fairly quiet evening here in general, though supposedly it was crazy during the day. We're short-staffed at the desk because Jim has moved on to greener pastures. Meaning another job. He's not dead yet, that I know of. I miss Jim. Anyway, so when the director put out the ad to replace him, she got something like 120 applications, most well-qualified, several from out of state. For a job that pays just over minimum with no benefits. Yay, job pool.

Ah, failed to help another Ask Here PA patron. Or, not really failed to help, just ended up giving them the phone number of their own libraries. Which you'd assume they'd be able to find on their own if they were able to find the Ask Here PA widget. Oh well.

And it's 8 o'clock already. Time to close up-- have a nice day!
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I like to pretend to myself, sometimes, that I'm a Foodie. Except that I'm not. I just like eating. I'm far too cheap to be a true Foodie. I am too stuck on Pantry-Principle grocery shopping to think beyond the serviceable ingredients I have. I don't have a problem using plain olive oil if the recipe calls for extra virgin; I use my plain yellow onions because I haven't got red ones or Vidalias on hand; potatoes is potatoes and tomatoes is tomatoes.

It's sad, really. I enjoy trying new foods, I have opinions about foods, and I really really love eating food, but I haven't got that REFINED TASTE to put me up in the ranks of Foodie-ness.

I was thinking that maybe this is like being a book-lover who only reads bestsellers, or a music lover who only listens to pop. But maybe not. Because, like I said, I do enjoy tasting new things. So maybe I'm like the music lover who listens to ANYTHING, loves it, thinks it's exciting, but just doesn't have the terminology to TALK about it, to discuss the effect of the instrumentation and the countermelody on the overall mood of the piece. I just know I like it.

As my username suggests, I am definitely a Foodie when it comes to books or music, though perhaps there are even Foodier Foodies above me who insist they only have taste for Fine Literature or Classical Music. But I most certainly will tell you the difference between paranormal and horror, between folk rock and country-western, between third-person omniscient and third-person limited and a capella and acoustic. I will immerse myself in those things and go on and on in detail about what works and WHY it works and why the faults it has don't detract from the positives (and when and why they DO), and I will further defend the best of the lowbrow and poke holes in the worst of the highbrow.

But I just can't bring myself to get that way about food. I'm pretty sure this is because I am cheap. But then again, it could mean that I have no taste. OR, maybe that I JUST LOVE FOOD TOO MUCH to be picky! Maybe I just don't CARE when something could be better, or if one thing is subtly different from another, because it's ALL TOO AWESOME!

So it's altogether possible that people that geek out less about books and music than me ACTUALLY LOVE THESE THINGS MORE THAN ME. That I am just a jargon-saddled SNOB in comparison!

Yes, this is altogether possible. But not likely.
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My job and the changes therein, of course, as those of you who can read my friends-locked entries are aware. But still haven't gotten things completely nailed down yet and in print, so I'm still not posting it publicly. Because yes, I still have no idea what it is.

A musing about where the "rockin" part of my username went, because only the "librarian" part has been getting any posted attention lately ("lately" meaning "like for the past two years"). It really hasn't abandoned my personality, I just seem to only have anything to say about it while listening to the radio, in the kitchen, while doing Important Kitchen-Related Things Rather Than Being Computer-handy. And even then, all I really have to say are random comments to the effect of "Why do people honestly find Taylor Swift's songs appealing?" or the like. Whereas, if I'm on the computer, I've probably just been reading something librarian and/or bookishly related, or am even, in fact, At Work IN a library, so that's what comes out. Sorry, all you poor sods who don't care about such things.

Buying vs. Borrowing books, and how ebooks fit into all that, and all the Deep Social and Class Issues involved, although whatever I write is not likely to be deep OR heavily researched, just off the top of my head.

How I got tagged in Facebook to name my Top 10 favorite authors. I'm still trying to figure that one out. At least it's easier than trying to name my top 10 favorite books. Speaking of which...

...possibly tomorrow Fuse #8, ie my favorite librarian blog I stalk, is beginning the countdown of reader-voted Top 100 Children's Novels, and last year's Top 100 Picture Books countdown was awesome beyond belief, and I'm not nearly as excited by picture books as I am by middle grade fiction, so I am REALLY EXCITED. It's like how you normal people get really excited when your favorite TV show's new season is starting. So I thought I might share here what I emailed in as my votes, except that picking just ten turned out to be really painful (and that was JUST Middlepgrade-to-young-YA fiction, mind you, no older YA, no adult... no picture books or easy readers for that matter), so then I thought I ought to try making a list of ALL my favorite books however many that may be, but I honestly have no idea HOW many that would be, and if you would in fact no longer take me seriously when I call something One of My Favorite Books if you actually saw such a list. Also, another blogger (which I don't have a link to offhand) decided to do a countdown for Teen books then, so I voted in that one, sneaking in a few of the older-leaning titles that got cut from the first list. That's twenty books and I'm STILL NOT DONE NAMING FAVORITE BOOKS.

I was going to tell you about how Sam managed to lose the lightswitch to a lamp today, and exactly the interesting communication challenge it is to convince a 2 3/4 year old that he IS the only person who has any idea where it's gone and it really MUST be found before his sister tries to eat it (also so we can turn off the lamp), and how he nonetheless merely looks everywhere you just looked, and creatively decides to look with his toy binoculars, and repeat after you... but I did finally find it after moving some furniture around, and anyway enough time has passed that I now forget what was so interesting about this event to begin with.

I may have in fact had more ideas to write about, but I forget them now.

Do any of these ideas sound interesting to you? Hello? Audience out there?

Also, there's a cake in the break room. I want some cake.
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Reading online recipe reviews sometimes makes me laugh, the extent to which people will alter a recipe and then insist that they're still reviewing the recipe on the page.

I wouldn't be surprised to come across something like this some day:
"What a fabulous recipe for spaghetti with meat sauce! Of course, we're vegetarian, so I substituted peanut butter for the beef, and since this didn't go with the tomato sauce I substituted strawberry jam for that. Then instead of pasta I put this between two slices of bread, so I can pack it in my kids' lunches! What great spaghetti!"

Come to think of it, there could be a picture book idea buried in this somewhere.
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...before I, or you, or whoever, forget:

Gobs, as made by Jason's aunt

Cookie part:

4 c flour
1/2 tsp baking powder
1/2 c cocoa
pinch salt
1 tsp baking soda

2 c sugar
1/2 c shortening

1 c sour milk (if you've never done that, T vinegar and milk to make 1 cup-- let sit five minutes or so)
1 scant cup boiling water

Mix dry ingredients separately (recipe says sift, but that depends how patient you are).
Cream sugar and shortening together. To this add the dry ingredients and the sour milk alternately. Then mix in the boiling water to everything.

Drop by spoonful onto ungreased cookie sheet (I learned the hard way that these cookies expand quite a bit, so make them REASONABLE spoonfuls or you'll have Meal-Sized Gobs). Bake at 325 for 15-20 minutes. Cool.

Cream filling:

Cook and stir until thick:
5T flour
1 c milk

Cool. Mix with:
1/2 c shortening (if all you have is butter-flavored Crisco like we do, you won't get the traditional WHITE creamy filling, but who cares...)
1/2 c margarine as well
1 c sugar (says the recipe. Next time I make these I'm using POWDERED sugar though, rather than the implied granulated, to get a creamier consistency-- I'm not sure how, if at all, that will affect the amount needed. Experiment)
1/2 tsp salt
1 tsp vanilla

Spread between two cookies. This recipe includes the note "(1 double recipe for filling)" I am not sure what this means, since I used pretty much all the filling on all the cookies. Possibly if made with powdered sugar it would be easier to include TWICE as much filling in the cookies, which would be awesome, since mine are sort of thin. Or possibly my cookies just look thin because they're huge around.
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First of all, to those to whom I promised to post a gobs recipe today, I apologize, but I can't figure out where I put the recipe. It WAS right on top of the recipe box, but I can't remember if I picked it up and put it in a pocket or something to take upstairs, or if it just got brushed off and is floating around the kitchen somewhere. Anyway, maybe some other time this week....

Secondly, it's time to take a vote. Jason forgot to get me any sort of birthday present, and I rarely get anything fun for myself and when I do it is some kind of food. So, I'm getting myself one little item off my Amazon list! Me being practical even when I buy something for myself for fun, I decided that the CDs will get much more use than books (which I don't have time for rereading) or DVDs (which I don't have time for watching, especially if they're not rated G), and the household items I have on the list are more for other people to see and know are something I will be happy if they get me, but they're not, you know, FUN. Maggie's the only person who ever gets me music, and owning new music makes me HAPPY... so anyway, I'm deciding between the following options:

Should I get:
--A: Piper at the Gates of Dawn, or
--B: All Things Must Pass; OR
--C: Should I get some other album I haven't thought of but you think I should have, OR
--D: Should I get something entirely unrelated off my wish list, perhaps a book after all, most likely this one because I'm a geek that way?

Okay, I'll count that as a whole post, if I get bored in the next hour I might wax on about books or something separately....
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So, Sam got reinfected with his little stomach bug on Thursday-- did I ever mention that he gave it to Jason in the meanwhile too?-- and just as I decide I need to Thoroughly Disinfect Everything In the House I fall asleep all of naptime Friday, only to discover that this is because my Super-Pregno-Immune-System has finally given in to the Bug itself. So all Friday night I spend throwing up. Luckily this ends by 1:30 AM and I've been fine with expulsions (or lack thereof) ever since, so I do not apparently need to go to the hospital for an emergency IV.

But the fact is there are still TWO people trying to survive on a Very Small Amount of Nutrients, and one of those people, lucky it, does not have a stomach virus, and is actively trying to make itself BIG all the time, so does not respect that mommy can't actually stomach much to pass on. This means it drains mommy's reserves instead.

And I am so OFF. All day yesterday I was all dizzy and exhausted, partially because I was still infected, but no doubt also because my hydration/blood sugar was off. I ended up in SUCH A MOOD, screaming at everybody, 'cause I just lost it. I felt bad for Sam because it wasn't his fault that he was two years old and had boundless energy (even with being sick himself, dangit) when I didn't; and he kept giving me things and kissing me I guess in effort to make me feel better, which was sweet, but didn't change that he was driving me crazy. Jason I didn't feel bad for because he's a grownup and ought to have been taking the energetic two-year-old off my hands more. And anyway, he finds my angry outbursts FUNNY because they're so rare, so he doesn't get any sympathy there, either. But anyway, I ended up dumping Sam in bed an hour early and then immediately going to bed myself, even though by that point, physically, I'd gotten a second wind and no longer felt like lying down. I just DID feel like being in the dark and not dealing with anything though.

So today I feel much better, physically and emotionally, but my digestive system is not up to par yet (I got all excited, for example, about eating a bowl of applesauce for lunch but could only finish half of it at that time). And this is TORTURE. My brain totally wants to eat all these things my stomach would completely veto if I even attempted them. But all I can think about is food! And the worst foods, too! Like nachos! There is nothing I want more this moment than a big plate of homemade nachos! (It does not help that, of all foods that have been particular cravings this pregnancy, nachos come closest to claiming the title). AND THE STEELERS ARE IN THE SUPERBOWL TONIGHT! You must understand something-- I am not a sports fan, and the only reason I know anything about football at ALL is from having been in high school marching band and therefore going to games every friday. But when you live in the Pittsburgh area, the Steelers are a huge deal whether you want them to be or not (just ask Liz. No, don't), which means that whenever they are doing REMOTELY well, PEOPLE HAVE PARTIES. PARTIES=FOOD!!!!!!!!!!!! So I can't help being excited for huge events like Superbowls for the complete and total reason that there is TONS OF PARTY FOOD INVOLVED.

But tonight, because 2/3 of us are sick, we're not going to any parties, which I guess is a blessing because then I don't have to have All That Party Food TORTURING ME IN PERSON, but I know it exists somewhere and this is torture anyway. And of course Jason's not going entirely without snacks... and unfortunately the main snack he has chosen is CORN CHIPS WITH CHEESE SALSA which is close enough to nachos to be EVIL OF HIM. He got me a bag of pretzels, which I guess is the only so-called Party Food I can stomach, but it is SO BORING in comparison to, say, pepperoni rolls and crazy dips and spicy meatballs and NACHOS for example...! And popcorn! Last night I dreamed that we were going to have a huge load of popcorn for the game tonight-- one of my more realistic dreams, and the sort of dream that would normally make me say "okay let's make popcorn!" but of course popcorn has too much fiber for me in my state. :P

There is nothing so cruel as giving a food-lover a little parasitic person and then telling them IF YOU EAT YOU WILL BE SICK. Oh well.

Meme Dump

Aug. 20th, 2008 05:33 pm
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Hurray for collection of surveys!

Also, a recent post in Facebook has alerted me that I should probably explain something-- so, yeah, if you're on Facebook and you are reading this as a Note, you should know that this is actually an imported LiveJournal entry. That way you are not too confused when I refer to it as such. If you are reading this from Facebook and would like to read MORE, then you really ought to get a LiveJournal account so I can friend you there and then you can read the SPECIAL FRIENDS-LOCKED POSTS THAT THE COOL PEOPLE CAN READ. Mostly the nonfriendslocked ones are pretty impersonal. Or, basically, contain little information that can be used to steal one's identity. Since everyone who can read this on Facebook already KNOWS my identity, what the hey, might as well get a livejournal and friend me then....

'K then.

This first is the newest, but it's the coolest because it's about READING AND WRITING:
The writing one, though the first few questions don't actually have to do with reading and writing. Directly )
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food list )
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generic lj-esque survey )
one on pregnancy and childbirth, you know you're dyin' to hear it )

That's all today, folks.
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(yes, it's the Christmas icon, but it's also me as a small child, and that's the main point).

Today is my big round birthday, as is [livejournal.com profile] lady1297's as well, which unfortunately I didn't remember this year until after she posted it herself.

Birthdays, as well as being a time to ignore the large pile of dirty dishes and sit reading Jane Austen* and eating yogurt during the baby's nap (which I suppose is like some kind of classier equivalent of reading trashy romances and eating ice cream instead of doing the dishes), are a good time for being retrospective. This is just an excuse for a lead-in to something I decided to write about yesterday and am still thinking about.

See I was reading this book on Sleep in the library and got to a fact that stated that "children don't have proper dreams until they are 7 to 9 years old," which I have seen similarly stated other places but not SO old-- I think I saw FIVE years before, and I gawked at even that. It went on to say that many younger children do have DREAMS before then, but these are usually static images and so forth, and proper NARRATIVES don't start up until seven. Still, this is wrong in my experience, because I moved when I was five, and I distinctly remember THREE dreams I had from the time period before that, one of which was most DEFINITELY of the narrative variety (the other two weren't EXACTLY static, either, and both involved soundtracks, which I don't think that book mentioned at all).

Now, I know I'm an unusually vivid dreamer in general-- I tend to have more fantastic dreams than the average person. Could my supposedly early dreams be another symptom of this? And does this somehow relate to my loving stories so much? Does my precocious dreaming ability stem from the same traits that gave me a natural inclination for writing? Or did it develop because my parents read me so many books? (But did they really read me so many more books than the average parents who read to their children at all do?)

Then it occurred to me to wonder if I also remember my childhood more vividly than the average person in general. I'm often amazed how many people don't seem to remember what it's like to be even, say, TEN years old, let alone five.

So today's writing prompt questions are-- How far back and how vividly do YOU remember? What is the earliest dream you remember? What is the earliest NARRATIVE dream you remember (a dream that has a plot, illogical and disjointed though it may be and probably is)? Do you have an earliest memory of being self-aware? How much does the You of your childhood relate to the You you are today, and vice versa? Inquiring minds want to know! Write about it!

my answers, or, I go off on this topic for awhile )

*so I don't forget after I go off on this tangent, my parents gave me an annotated edition of Pride and Prejudice for my birthday, and, as I probably mentioned at some point, I have never managed to secure even a NONannotated edition for my very self, so it is very fun to read, and very difficult to decide between reading the annotations as I go just for the interestingness of it, or just plowing along skipping the annotations just enjoying the story even though I have already read it as well as watched it many times. Also, I got from both sets of parents gift cards to both Home Depot AND Lowes so I can shop around for lots of GARDEN STUFF! My parents took us out to Don Pablos Saturday night which was very tasty, and they bought me for dessert, get this, a Boston Cream Pie with Strawberries instead of chocolate, and that HAS to be about the BEST possible dessert they could have picked for me, so they totally rock. Anyway, that's the NEWS news. Now I'll go back up and get on with my writing prompt for the day.
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Anybody got any good recipes/recommendations using canned tuna that are not for tuna casserole or anything else involving cream of mushroom soup, lettuce, or noticeable mayonnaise? (she says with a subtext of begging the gods of all things culinary that Sammy will have more daring tastes than his father, so we may be two-against-one someday on dinner choices). It's Lent, Jason tends to freak out at all vegetarian meals that aren't hot pepper pizza, and we get four free cans of tuna a month. A few months ago I found this Asian Tuna Patties recipe which is really awesome, but I don't feel like having it EVERY WEEK. Jason on the other hand would be quite content having it every week, or even more often than that, and can't understand why I keep pestering him to come up with other ways in which he'd willingly ingest canned tuna, besides straight out of the can, which he also wouldn't mind.

Anyway, here's a Concert Survey, which is rather comically lacking in concerts )
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I have a whole series of Mildly Philosophical Opinion things I've been Meaning to Post At Some Point But Have Never Felt Compelled To While Actually On the Computer, but one of them just came up over in [livejournal.com profile] vovat's journal, and I figured that, rather than writing a long, possibly veering off-topic comment on it, I would actually just suck it up and write a REAL POST on it instead.

The topic I wish to discuss is the overemphasis on Obesity in discussions of healthy lifestyles.

Why overemphasis, you ask? Obesity is a serious health risk! Look at Mama Cass, whom I am choosing as an example because you, [livejournal.com profile] rockinlibrarian, idolize her, even though there are lots of other examples of dead celebrities whom other people know better, and also don't erroneously believe choked to death on a sandwich rather than died of obesity related heart failure!

Well, the first response is "Well, look at Karen Carpenter!" who I ironically idolize for the very same reason, and who died of the VERY OPPOSITE PROBLEM. Eating disorders of the opposite variety are still alive and strong in this country, much as there may also be an obesity epidemic. I think the constant news reports saying "Americans are all overweight!" aren't doing any more to help this problem than Barbie dolls and movie stars are.

But the more interesting response is that YOUR FOCUS IS WRONG. It's focusing on a symptom, one that is often genetic, of a health issue that affects ALL people regardless of their weight! EVERYONE needs to eat healthy and exercise for LOADS of reasons, only ONE of which is keeping a healthy weight. Why do we even have to MENTION obesity, ESPECIALLY when talking to children? With children the emphasis should DEFINITELY be on starting healthy habits, not on losing weight! It's not just the overweight kids who gain a poor self-image based solely on their weight, but here's one people don't think of-- the skinny kids, like I was, who then think that this information MUST NOT APPLY TO THEM.

I was effortlessly Skinny until my senior year of college, when I messed up my metabolism for all time in Vienna (but that's another story). I was also a Lump. Okay, I still am. I never did anything active. I slumped in the corner reading books all the time. I remember hearing those lessons about eating healthy and exercising, but who cared? I wasn't fat. And I wasn't a couch potato watching TV all the time, which was always the example they used of how inactive kids were. I don't know why people assumed that the opposite of watching TV was being Active, but the impression I got was just that the grownups didn't want kids watching too much TV, not that they wanted kids to EXERCISE. Why would anybody say I spent too much time READING? Reading was one of those things grownups WANTED kids to do more of! So I have loads of unhealthy habits, mostly related to activity level, but hey, I wasn't an overweight kid.

So WHY do all the healthy habit initiatives out there, particularly the ones I found when I was looking up The Joys Of Getting Kids to Like Vegetables for the book project this year (some of those moments I was tempted to write this post before but was too busy doing the book project to bother), HAVE to keep going on about Childhood Obesity? It's entirely the wrong focus! MY opinion about health in general is to Keep Things Positive. Rather than Don't Eat So Much fat/carbs/sugars/whatever, say DO eat foods that are high in nutrients! Instead of Don't Watch So Much TV, say DO get involved in some INTERESTING active activity-- give fun examples rather than Work Out Regularly or Join a Competitive Sport. Rather than Don't be Fat, say DO be HEALTHY-- whatever your default size.

Well, I'm still an inactive lump (though I still don't watch much TV), so I can't say much about THAT; but I can say HEALTHY FOODS CAN BE SO YUMMY! They should be celebrated! THAT'S the way to encourage healthy habits in ALL people not just kids-- emphasize what you SHOULD eat, not what you shouldn't. And as for what you shouldn't-- I'm all about moderation! If it genuinely tastes good but hasn't got much nutritional value, you shouldn't deny yourself if you've got enough good nutrition elsewise. Moderation is great!

Though that brings up ANOTHER of my random issues I've thought of recently, but is short enough to cover in one paragraph: I have recently decided that a total waste of money that most people don't realize is such is Crappy Junk Food. Think about it: why do people spend money on, like, those cheap sandwich cookies that are really poor excuses for Oreos? They have neither nutritional value NOR are they delicious-- they're just a sweet snack for filling you up. You could fill yourself up with so many things that are much tastier AND healthier! If you're going to buy food with no nutritional value, it should be DELICIOUS food! Thank you.

Okay, I think that's all I had to say.
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Yesterday was Maggie and Zeke's wedding! Beeg old party day! Managed to happen even for the gal who's been telling everyone she was going to elope for years-- yes, my family manages to turn everything into a Big Old Party Day. (Instead of an elopement, it was a small ceremony at our-- uh, the parents'-- house followed by a buffet dinner for more people in a restaurant private room, then a few more people hanging out back at the house-- so not a huge traditional affair, but still a decent party).

Well, Sammy has started teething again, this time on the top, and I think he's got THREE about to pop, the two front and the one just to the left of those (the one I no longer have, there's some trivia for you), and I think they're crooked too, but anyway they're just baby teeth so maybe they'll straighten out eventually. ANYWAY, so he (and therefore I) slept really badly the night before and was pretty miserable most of the next day. He's also taken to rolling over and attempting to crawl away IMMEDIATELY upon my putting him down to change his diaper. SO it took a really long time to finally get on the road, but off we went and managed to get there still before everybody else except Jessie, who was carefully and geometrically arranging the dining room table with LOADS OF COOKIES, including these amazing cream-puffy things that were better than cream puffs 'cause they were made with flaky pastry dough.

For the ceremony the guests were mostly just immediate family-- Zeke's grandparents (our Grandpap couldn't make it), his aunt who's more like his father anyway (okay, a second mother), Aunt Dot and Uncle Harry because they're Maggie's godparents, and Aunt Peggy too but I'm not sure why she made the cut and the rest of the aunts and uncles didn't. And siblings of course. And Jessie, because if it had been a more traditional ceremony she might have been Maid of Honor so it wouldn't have been right to gyp her of that. It was officiated by the District Justice who lives down the street and whose daughters I used to babysit and (the eldest of whom) went to school with Maggie, so he started off by telling everyone about how they once all dressed up like the Addams Family for Halloween. The ceremony was short and sweet, and Zeke said "I do" about five times before he was actually SUPPOSED to, and also said "yeah" too at one point I believe (I suppose that's a good sign!); and then we spread out and wolfed down all the punch and as much of the cookies as we had stomach for before we remembered that we had to get to Blairsville for the reception.

The reception was at Pie Cuchina, this nice restaurant we went to after IUP graduation for one that happens to be (and I forgot this) right next door to the apartment building my grandma lived in for many years. There we met more of the extended family and some close friends. This was still quite a crowd (so imagine what MY wedding was like!). Somehow the seating chart got screwed up and a bunch of people got tags saying they belonged at tables that were already full, while meanwhile there was one table that NO ONE was assigned to, so Jason and I ended up sitting there with the Souths and three of Zeke's high school friends. The food here was, well, awesome, but now I'll go into detail: this amazingly awesome punch that was pineapple coconut with lots of frothy ice cream whipped stuff on top; MORE cookies, and cupcakes with a huge phlwap of sugar icing on top; wedding soup; garden salad; pasta salad; this INCREDIBLE cheese tortellini which was just about the best you could ever imagine and is certainly a better alternative to the traditional wedding Rigatoni; salmon with some stuff on it; some kind of chicken; and I think there were green beans also. And rolls. But the tortellini and the punch stand out.

It was a dinner reception, no dancing or anything, so we just hung out after we ate, mostly mingling around in the lobby and taking pictures, and we hung out there quite a long time until it looked like the staff was wishing we'd just leave so they could clean up after us; so then we went back to the house to eat more of those cookies. Maggie and Zeke opened some presents, Zoe explored the mechanics of a piano and then hosted a few games of Candyland Bingo, a few people (I'm not entirely sure who) kept having entirely too much fun with silly string, Sammy crawled around in his pajamas, and there was general joy and hanging-out-ness. Then we went home in time to beat the ice storm that was supposedly blowing in, but I think it ended up just being really cold rain here. Anyway.

I think that's all I have to say, but the important thing is not the words, of course, it's the pictures, so here they are here. As usual, tell me as soon as possible if that's a sucky link so I can fix it.

Oh, and before I forget-- TIME FOR THE CHRISTMAS-AMY DEFAULT TO SPREAD YOU JOY PEACE AND LOVE!

Peachy

Jul. 3rd, 2007 10:46 am
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Hey, I just had an AWESOME PEACH. I didn't realize they were in season quite enough yet to be as good as all that. Granted it wasn't quite ripe when I bought it on Saturday, but it's been in a brown paper bag since. I was excited by how awesome it was. Bad peaches are so sucky, but good peaches rock the world.

I did productiveness this morning, ie, I started on next year's One Book project (Up, Down, and Around by Pittsburgher Katherine Ayres --which basically means I brainstormed some possible activities, but still, it was productive. This book really lends itself to activities. I might enlist the aid of you composers out there (how many composers do I have on my friends list? Three? Four even? You guys are a talented bunch) to help set it to music-- I've got a bit of a tune in my head already, but to get the bugs out... unless that idea gets nixed for some reason or another. Just, the book lends itself to dancing anyway, and is quite sing-songy, I don't think I could read it straight without accidentally singing it.

So now that I've done productiveness, and Sammy is still busy playing with daddy, I'll do unproductiveness and continue the controversial questions survey by answering the questions Nathan added when he took it )

Two Months

Jun. 15th, 2007 04:22 pm
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Speaking of music-- well, I wasn't, but I'm about to-- If you haven't played the Guess the Lyric game yet this time, go there now! I salute the five of you who have bravely taken a stab at it already, you all rock. I'll post the answers in a couple days, or, well, whenever I get to it.

For Sammy's Two Month Birthday, he discovered POLKA MUSIC! It was so exciting. It's the church festival, which I have never been to-- well, I've never been to ST. PATRICK'S church festival, although summer church festivals --at least CAtholic ones-- are pretty well standard all over-- and I saw that Thursday evening would not only be Italian Dinner Special night but also the night where the entertainment was an accordion band, and said, ah, that's a fine way to celebrate. I believe it is imperative that one must dance to Polka at least once a year in the course of their lives, and it is therefore important that I expose Sammy to it when I can. So [livejournal.com profile] punterschlagen had been wanting to bring Little Larry out for a visit sometime this week anyway and decided that Polka music and the festival's used book sale was a perfect occasion, so the four of us strollered on down the hill and joined the party! rest of the story under a cut, because there are pictures )
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Does anyone want to go to a Strawberry Festival on Saturday? All of you that, uh, actually live near me and won't be out of town (or the country)? Neh, I'd just love to go, but it doesn't seem worth it to bundle up the baby and go without company that can actually share in the wonder of strawberries with me. Jason will be groundhog hunting that afternoon... not that he would appreciate the wonder of strawberries anyway.

Sam learns to play
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I think today wore sammy out, he's really cranky this evening with no particular reason why. He just seems overtired, but can't seem to settle down. He's in his crib now and periodically will start howling for thirty second intervals, then fall asleep again. Possibly a cross between gas and overstimulation. (hey, apparently I had the exact same digestive issues as a baby-- but worse. Says my mom today)

But it was a good day in general: it was Sammy's baptism! I stayed up when he woke me for his 6:30 feeding so I could go out and plant the tomatoes (which I didn't get to after I bought them yesterday) and shower, and spent the morning tidying the house a bit and feeding sammy again and also eating. The plan was that I would go to noon Mass (and my family came too), and then Jason would bring Sammy afterward (since the baptism was after Mass), so he could be put into his nice outfit at the last minute rather than spit up on it and so he wouldn't have to cry through Mass. This turned out not to be a problem because Sammy ended up sleeping all that time anyway-- even while being put into his new outfit. Of course, he STARTED sleeping-- and soundly-- at about 11, so though I MEANT to feed him one last time before I left, I didn't want to wake him, so of course when he finally DID wake up RIGHT before the baptism began he was STARVING, but seemed calmed enough by Jason's finger and by the interesting new sights and smells of the service so that he wasn't INCONSOLABLE until the very end, and was generally very well-behaved-- even seemed to be enjoying himself some of the time! There was one other baby being baptised at that time-- he had an older sister who decided it would be fun to play in the baptismal font during his baptism-- I thought that was pretty funny. Anyway, it was all really nice and I felt really happy. And his name sounded really nice when the priest said it, nicer than I'd even thought it sounded before (and nicer than the other baby's name I think, too). Think it really is his proper spiritual name.

Then afterward we went home and ate fruit and dip and Sammy opened presents-- okay, I opened presents for sammy. He got lots of BOOKS-- most of which were religious in nature, obviously, but two of those were actually written by a woman who used to go to the Weirs' (actually the Beeghleys') church, which was cool; and he also got a Mother Goose collection which shockingly we didn't have yet, and a book about a knight and a dragon, which I thought was very appropriate. And he got an engraved Noah's Ark bank that said "Sam I Am" and a ball with a bell in it, which I think we will have a lot of fun with. And I got two mother's day cards. My parents found one that was for Daughter's First Mother's Day and my sibs one for Sister's First. They make cards for EVERY possibility, don't they? We were saying how amazing it is that we've got this wall of baby cards, many of which are specifically BOY baby cards, and we didn't get a SINGLE DUPLICATE. Anyway, we were going to have a late lunch that my parents were bringing, except they forgot it at home-- well, they forgot the main course, they brought salad and bread and of course the fruit dip appetizer; so my dad ran out and got these pre-marinated pork tenderloins at shopnsave which Jason then grilled-- they turned out Pretty Awesome. And there was also chocolate-chocolate cake made by Mim-mim. We had a nice afternoon, and since everyone else was holding Sammy, I lost track and fell asleep on the couch and everyone let me! That's just all you need, there.

And of course in the middle of typing this Sammy woke up for REAL, crying in a "feed me, change me" way instead of an "oh my god the world is so terrible get me off it now" way, so I went through the whole bedtime routine since it was time for that, and that successfully settled him right asleep, so now I will join him. In being asleep. I get my own bed, which fits me much better than a bassinet.
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Somehow I think I've developed a post-partum allergy to Tombstone pizza. The two times I've had it in the past four weeks, I've felt horribly ill right after (and Jason hasn't), and I've had other pizza (once), other things with mozzarella cheese, and other things with Italian-spiced tomato sauce, and not felt sick, and haven't felt sick this way any other time these four weeks either. Well, I'm rounding, I felt a bit nauseous EXACTLY four weeks ago, but that's because I was in early labor. Anyway, speaking of other people with digestion problems, Sammy got through his last round of gas bubbles on my knee and has fallen asleep again. wish I knew what the culprit was in his case. Don't think it's dairy, because I have had lots of dairy all the time since the beginning and he didn't have a problem then. Gyros? The cucumber sauce maybe? I got a gyros kit the other day and have had that for dinner twice this week. Mom W said she couldn't eat any leafy vegetables when feeding bethany (you think that would've been with JASON). I thought it might be the oatmeal I had for breakfast the other day, judging by when he was fussy, but I didn't have oatmeal today. Ugh, I hope whatever's causing MY current discomfort doesn't make it into the milk-- then there will be NOTHING anyone can do!

Possibly I overworked myself this morning. I finally dragged my butt (and Sammy's-- and a quilt for the ground) to the backyard to work on the vegetable bed. Weeding is probably one of those things you're not supposed to do before six weeks, but oh well, it's Mothers Day weekend and the tomatoes HAVE, just HAVE to go in. Says me. I mean to pick some up tomorrow! But perhaps a cross between physical exertion in improperly premature ways and Tombstone pizza is what is making me feel sick. I seem to recall wondering if I'd been doing too much when I felt sick the last time, too. I forget what I'd been doing that day though.

Sunday is Sammy's baptism. I have successfully gotten my siblings to be godparents. Don't know who I'll get for the next kid, because I'm out of siblings, and my two closest --only--practicing Catholic friends live in faraway states like Georgia and North Dakota. Perhaps one or the other will live closer by the time the next kid comes along. Dang Catholicism. The priest even said when we went in for the baptism prep meeting that the whole point of godparents was to officially ensure that the kid had someone else who would take care of them should the parents die in a plague or so forth, back in the middle ages, so you'd think they'd be more open about who can be godparents. Eh, we'll worry about that when the next kid comes along. At least three years.

He makes such funny faces when he sleeps. Well, he makes funny faces when he's awake too. He looks more like Jason all the time, which is funny because I always heard that babies look the most like their fathers at birth, as a kind of natural paternity test, and then gradually look more like their mothers (like my cousin Zoe, when she was born, it was like "WHOA, look, it's a Blankenship!" but since then she looks a lot more like her mom. Though she still looks like a Blankenship. Just not as shockingly). Actually, it's the top half of Sammy's face that looks like Jason, and the bottom half-- well, the mouth and chin-- is mine. This is a good combination, apparently. It makes him look far cuter than either of us did as babies.

Anyway, I'll go before he wakes up and I end up doing something else for a couple hours and forgetting to post this. Have a nice day.
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I know the reason I've been depressed the past few days is hormones and boredom and I know I'd feel better if I DID something interesting, but I can't think of anything. I think this would be the perfect opportunity to do something it will be harder to do with a baby, but the only things I can think of that fit that description, a) I ALREADY physically can't do; b) require money; or c) both (example: going to the movies. Not an exorbitant expense, but like I can sit there for 2 hours without making at least 3 bathroom breaks and getting extremely uncomfortable!)... or d) we've already done today? never mind.

I got a chicken out of the freezer yesterday so we could feast on chicken today, because that would be interesting, and I thought that if I bothered to get a chicken out to defrost then something would happen so we wouldn't be able to use it after all! Well, Murphy's Law, you'd THINK that would happen. But it's time to start the chicken now if we want it for lunch (we have a late lunch since Jason doesn't eat dinner until 8), so I will go do that, and that will keep me occupied for a BIT.

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