:D Last night after he got home Jason asked me "So, what's the plan [for the evening]?" three times in a row, and after the third time I said "I already told you!" and he said "I don't know why I keep asking that," at the exact same moment, then he said, "I know why, I'm just trying to get you to talk!" "...but I don't have anything else to talk about right now!" I said after a pause where I tried to think of what to say. This is how I feel most of the time actually! There's some point between "being shy" and "just not feeling like saying anything at the moment," but I'm not sure how much force of habit that is in social situations, when it's a problem or not. Well, sometimes I know it's a problem. But it happens a lot less often than it used to.